It is that time, once again, where I celebrate the glorious occasion of my birth. It is also the first day of the spring semester and I am teaching today as well as taking a class. It stands to reason, then, that I haven’t been able to sleep and the birthday butterscotch creme brulee has killed my insides. For those who don’t remember/are new, I’m allergic to eggs and that’s basically what creme brulee is: baked eggs with crunchy sugar on top. I realize I shouldn’t have eaten it, but we were at a nice restaurant and our server brought me a complimentary dessert and that was what she brought. It was delicious, but I am paying dearly for it now.
I am 38 today. Some things really make that hit home. My oldest son is already angling for his first car and he won’t even be 16 until August. My high school class is planning our 20th reunion. Whenever I think about the things I used to enjoy in my 20s, I instantly feel the need to take a nap. Oh, and there’s my stockpile of hair color.
Last year, for my birthday, I was deathly ill with flu and I had lost a dear friend of mine to a lengthy respiratory illness. It was shaping up to be another sad birthday for me when weather prevented me from seeing my youngest son this weekend. But, you know? It hasn’t been that bad at. It’s actually been pretty good.
I spent the weekend with my oldest son, just the two of us. We went to see The Hobbit: The Battle of the Five Armies yesterday and it was great. When I got home, I had a present waiting for me.
A friend wanted to make my day suck less. It worked. My guy took me to a really nice restaurant where I had fettuccine with shrimp and lobster in a spicy diavolo sauce and my butterscotch death brulee. Came home and watched a few episodes of Game of Thrones. Yes, I’m behind, but I’m in the 4th season now so cut me some slack. After that, I came into my office to do some work but saw a contest and decided to enter a chapbook of poetry instead. If all of this wasn’t quite enough, I’ve had birthday wishes coming in from Facebook and in my email, and I’ll be meeting up with friends after class tonight to eat noms, drink beverages, and spend time together.
It’s cold. The roads tend to be awful. I didn’t get to see my small man. Nothing is perfect, though, and so I’ll spend my day being grateful for all the wonderful people I have in my life. I fully expect lots of birthday hugs and lots of laughs. Here’s to another trip around the sun.